Golden formula to make home life happy | part-1
The findings that Delcarnegie has made by conducting a deep study of Marital Psychology have created a revolution in Western countries today. It is full of the knowledge of secret differences in the mind of man and woman. We cite them here from his book for the benefit of families.
1. Do not tease husbands
This rule is for women, who take time to ask their husbands to keep their financial status in mind. Lack of authority on the tongue, temptation, watching movies, jewellery, the stubbornness of the husband due to good clothes. There are differences of opinion and nature and then destroy family life.
2. Do not criticize.
When the husband or wife starts sorting each other’s weaknesses, faults, fools, then the love-door breaks. In the higher role of love, you also have to bear each other’s weaknesses and weaknesses. If one soon concentrates on the errors of others, then according to the laws of concentration, they will grow.
3. Praise sincerely.
It should be your duty to make your life-partner excited, uplifted, educated, cultured, decent citizen. Praise each good and do it openly. Praise will also develop their good qualities. Friendship, tolerance, organization, cooperation will increase. Most wives are good, but due to the husband not encouraging them, their development stops. The wife’s heart is blunt because of the rebuke, beatings, rude behaviour and cruelty. Secret beliefs are broken. It is about divorce. Therefore, the husband should always be adorned with the highest qualities of the wife. Appreciate each and every work of the house with honesty, decoration, kitchen, style, decoration, financial support.
4. Take care of small things
A householder is also broken by small things. Women like to see the husband clean, want to hear again about his good idea, want to listen to the appreciation of his clothes, household arrangement, food, why would he be good if you do not show interest in the work done for him.
Some people keep the money in their hands and the wife has to ask for two or four each. His ‘ego’ and pride are a shock. She feels a sense of inferiority within herself and does not love her husband. Therefore, enough money should be left with the wife. To be lazy in his proper and ethical demands and fulfilment is to wash the tree of quarrel in the house.
The young men and women who marry each other indiscriminately and bring great hopes of happiness and joy to each other. If both do not take care of each other’s small things, then soon married life becomes trifling. Adequate understanding, utmost courage and hard work are required to keep each other’s mind in mind.
Do not hide anything from the wife, otherwise, she will doubt and continue to be charmed by secret mental anguish. Tell him what you earn? How do you spend? How much is insured? Whose name is will How does income-expenditure work? What are your future plans? How much money have you collected? And so on and so forth.
The husband should continue to lighten his love for her with constant tenderness and constant care of the wife. Otherwise, a love-hungry woman will take love from wherever she finds it. After marriage, as long as you live, you should keep on doing charity. Small things of courtesy, respect and bringing new gifts should not be forgotten because women attach great importance to this. In the absence of love, love and love, a woman cannot even lead a life of ordinary pleasure. Love is the food of his soul.